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my dreams for women.

March 8, 2013

Today is International Women’s Day….not quite as popular among Evangelical Christians as National Pancake Day, but just as important I would say. In honor of IWD, I’d like to share a few of my dreams for the women of the world, in MLKjr style.


I have a dream that one day women will not be judged by their gender, but by their humanity and identity as members of the human race.

I have a dream that one day women will not be subjected to the horrors of sex as violence, but that their bodies and spirits would be honored and cherished by their communities and that they would not have to fear as they go to work, study, and walk down the street.

I have a dream that one day women will have economic justice by earning the same pay for the same work as their male counterparts.

I have a dream that one day women will feel confident and comfortable in their bodies and not subjected to idealized standards of “beauty.”

I have a dream that one day women will be welcomed as equal partners in religious communities, with an understanding that we are all children of God and made to reflect the image of God in the world.

I have a dream that one day little girls will be empowered with the knowledge that they can do anything and be anything that they want – from a rock star to the president to a CEO to a pastor.

As I think about the women around the world today who are subjected to sexual violence by spouses, traffickers, warmongers, about the women who commit suicide because they are told that they are not good enough, about the women who will never know sexual pleasure because they’ve been subjected to Female Genital Mutilation, about the women who die in childbirth because they have no access to medical care, about the women who are told that while Jesus loves them he can’t use their gifts in the church – as I think about all of these women, I want to gather them like a mother hen gathers her chicks, protecting, comforting, and nurturing. I think of Jesus who embraced that feminine description and said he wanted to do the same. I think ultimately, I dream of a day when our male counterparts would do the same – cherish, nurture, care for the women and girls in their communities. I dream of a day when women would do that for one another. I dream of a day when the brokenness of women can be healed by the men and women who come around them to bind up their broken hearts, set them free from their captivity, and walk them into the light of jubilee.

What are your dreams for women this International Women’s Day?

5 Comments leave one →
  1. March 8, 2013 1:37 pm

    absolutely brilliant!


  2. March 8, 2013 3:04 pm

    Yes, thank you for these articulate thoughts.

    Some of my dreams for women are tied to dreams for men:

    … that one day boys will no longer grow up consuming images of violence against women in pornography
    … that one day teenage boys will learn that what it means to be a man does not involve degrading and objectifying women
    … that one day men will no longer assume that they are entitled to access women’s bodies
    … that one day women and men will be fully free to form life-giving relationships of mutual love and respect, unmarred by inequality


    • March 8, 2013 3:27 pm

      yes yes yes. thanks for adding these thoughts Suzy! I was wanting to go that direction but decided not to for the moment…but I’m glad you added them. our future as a sex is integrally tied to the future of men as well. I love your last point about mutuality and togetherness. so perfectly articulated.


      • March 8, 2013 4:31 pm

        Thank you! I’m glad I found your blog, and I’m looking forward to hearing more of your thoughts.


  3. Ashley permalink
    March 9, 2013 1:25 am



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